Don’t worry about disappearing erections and the mood flying out the window, those things will always come back… If, for whatever reason you need to take some time out, just say so. As I like to say, “don’t say no, till you give it ago”. You never know, it could be the best thing you’ve ever done. Has your partner just suggested doing something a bit left-field? Instead of saying, “no” why not, unless it literally makes you sick to your core, try it out. Guys, we’re not mind readers and unless you voice what it is you want to happen next the likelihood is that it won’t happen and life is too short for crappy unfulfilling sex.
“Blow me”, “lick my balls”, “rim” or “just stick it in”. Ask in a bored tone or a voice that is dripping with sarcasm might just ruin the flow… Asking whether your guy is getting close to coming could mean that you can climax together. It’s okay to ask, but as always it’s in the tone of your voice.
So here’s 11 things you should definitely say or do in bed if you’re looking for better sex. They say communication is the key to successful relationships and there’s no reason why this shouldn’t happen in the bedroom to bring you a successful sex life.
